On the newest episode of "My Ugly Duckling," Kim Heechul of Super Junior decided to share some tips about dating, relying on his own experiences!
Heechul spent considerable time hanging out with actors Lee Ho Cheol and Im Won Hee throughout the SBS television program telecast on July 12. (via Soompi)
Lee Ho Cheol surprised Kim Heechul when he said that his last relationship was when he was 21 or 22.
Heechul voiced out his concern with how long Lee Ho Cheol was out from the dating scene. In defense, Ho Cheol clarified that while he was young, he became occupied with his job and traveled around quite a lot.
"I would like to begin putting in the effort again," Ho Cheol said. Heechul told him, "Which boils down to confidence. In my personal view, you don't need an appearance at all."
Im Won Hee objected, "You can only say that because you have good appearance and you are who you are." Seo Jang Hoon jumped right in, "That's because you're Kim Heechul," to which the panel of celebrity moms agreed to as well.
Heechul nevertheless stressed that when it comes to relationships and dating, self-esteem would be the most critical aspect.
"I first had a relationship with an older lady I met at a bar when I was 22," he said. "In terms of my personal preferences and interests, I tried to tell her confidently what I liked and did not like, instead of being polite and agreeing with, 'That's cool with me too.' Nowadays, this is the type of thing women want."
Lee Ho Cheol replied, "Because you were attractive and confident."
Unfazed, Heechul pressed on, "I do not like playing games of push-and-pull. Don't hesitate when you come across a girl you admire. Promptly, I tell her I like her. As I dated my first girlfriend again, I immediately confronted her, 'Would you like to hang out with me?"
The star then told Lee Ho Cheol, "Today for the first time having struck up a conversation with you, I believe if you were talking to a girl you liked for only five minutes, she would have fallen for you no matter what.'
When Lee Ho Cheol voiced skepticism, Heechul expressed that the actor was able to trust his advice because, with girls, he had a 100 percent success record. Here are some tips that Heechul shared:
"Be positive and confident first. And you need to hit her out of nowhere with a few lines."
Only admit. Say anything like this, 'Is that good for me to like you? "Then you could say, 'I don't think that we can just be acquaintances. I want you as my girlfriend."
Heechul concluded that it is all about confidence, stressing out that looks don't really matter.